Having registered for the first ever UK Feminista Summer School I quite naturally turned my attention to my Feminist reading this year …only to realise that I hadn’t actually done any. In fact, my non-fiction reading has been terrible all round this year. Anyway, hoping to ease myself back in with something relatively light, I turned to the trusty Seal Press, and the only Seal book left on my shelf unread; Body Outlaws: Rewriting the Rules of Beauty and Body Image, a collection of thirty-eight personal essays by various writers about the issues they have with their own bodies, and their relationship with the beauty standards that society sets out.
In fact, the purpose of the book, or rather the ideology behind it, seems to be best summed up in one of the essays, where Amelia Richards, in ‘Body Image: third-wave feminism’s issue?’ argues that
Body image is significant as a rallying focus because it speaks not only to the converted but also to the “I’m not a feminist, but…I’m tired of measuring myself against an impossible-to-achieve beauty standard contingent. It can catalyze our dormant or displaced activism, primarily because it’s both a cultural and a political issue…[as]…Even young women who don’t identify as feminists offer heartfelt and complex emotions on the topic
something which I have certainly found to be true, at least in my own experience. Nevertheless, the book is not at all narrow in focus, and very few essays seem to cover ground that has already been gone over earlier in the book, and of those that do, the writers are often offering different perspectives on the same issue.
In fact, as usual in these kinds of essay collections, the contributors are varied by age, race (or rather, ethnicity, as the book is very much US-centric), and sexual orientation. Unusually for Seal Press books, however, this essay collection also contains two essays by men, one of which, ‘Size queen’, gave a really interesting perspective on the pressures to have the ‘perfect’ body that the author felt were directed at men from within the gay community in the US. However, the other essay in Body Outlaws by a man was one of only two essays in the whole book that made me profoundly uncomfortable, to the point that I really had to struggle to finish them.
I have to say, I like having my own views challenged when I am reading non-fiction; it’s my main reason for reading books like this, where you can encounter a diverse range of opinions. Nevertheless, the essay ‘Cro-Magnon Karma’ really got under my skin. I think, however, that it was at the point the author rationalized his own behaviour in not only looking at other women, while he was with his wife, but also commenting on their “amazing” bodies to her, by saying
For longer than Western society has taught men that there are required physical components for masculinity, it’s taught them that the manliest men score the most desirable women. According to this set of standards, guys whose wives and girlfriends aren’t attractive in society’s eyes are less powerful and masculine than guys whose women are trophies.
To be fair, the writer does point out that this is ridiculous thinking, and that he really shouldn’t be judging the woman who is his life partner, or his own masculine identity, by how ‘hot’ she is, but then he keeps fricking doing it! I have to say, I pretty much lost interest at this point, although I did read the essay to the end, and, apparently, it was all his wife’s fault, because she left him for a more “masculine” man when she was in her twenties, and only came back to him once she’d peaked. I might be doing the author an injustice here, but I don’t think so.
Beyond that, the only other essay that really made me uncomfortable was ‘Parisian Peel’, which affected me more through its quite graphic description of one of those incredilbly painful cosmetic ‘procedures’, where people have acid put onto their faces to peel away the top layer of their skin, than anything else. Beyond these two essays, however, I thought it was a well-balanced collection from a group of intelligent people, and several essays really made me question some assumptions I didn’t even know I had been making, such as the essay ‘Veiled Intentions’ by Maysan Hadar about her decision, as both a Muslim woman and a feminist, to cover her hair, and ‘Appraising God’s Property’ by Keesa Schreane, in which the author discusses her decision to remain a virgin until she is married. While neither writer entirely convinced me of their positions, they certainly gave me pause for thought.
Having said this, the book is not at all academic, but, rather, a very personal collection, and I suppose, therefore, that every reader will have their own reaction to the individual writers. It is also worth noting the limitations of essay collections like this; the broad focus can be counted as both a positive, in the fact that it allows such a diverse range of writers the opportunity to get their point across, and a negative, because nothing is covered in much depth, and there isn’t much scope for further research, beyond the bibliograpy at the back of the book which, despite being quite comprehensive, seemingly offers only more of the same.
Overall, though, the book was exactly what I was looking for, something that was going to give me something to think about, as well as a starting off point for working my way through some of the other books in my library. I just plan on making my next feminist read something with a bit more depth, and a stronger academic focus.